#FatherOnFire Group Coaching Program

Being a DAD is the MOST IMPORTANT JOB you will ever have. Period, end of story.

And I'm here to help you re-connect with this TRUTH, re-connect with YOURSELF and get you on the road to becoming not just a good Dad, but the BEST DAD EVER!

The #FatherOnFire EXCLUSIVE Group Coaching Program is packed with 8 Tools for Conscious Evolution that when utilized, will have you parenting with PASSION, PURPOSE, PLAYFULNESS, PATIENCE, PRESENCE, PEACEFULNESS, LOVE, ADAPTABILITY, & PRODUCTIVITY!

I want you to know that I literally went to Hell and back to bring this course to you (more on this below). It's the culmination of years of study and thousands of hours of practice.

You're going to be asked to work...this takes a serious commitment to grow and evolve. If you're going to go into this half-hearted, this is not the coaching program for you. I'm only intersted in working with Dads who are all-in.

#FatherOnFire is my complete, 8-Week, 8-module system designed to create a total life transformation in the areas of mind, body and soul, so that you can wake up to the fact that you were destined to be a Dad...and it's time for you to do it whole-heartedly, and practice empowered & an impactful fathering.

I'm here to help you become a living, breathing #FatherOnFire who is mindfully evolving as a parent and person.

But before I go into how we're going to do that, I want to introduce myself...

My name is Adam Brewer. I've spent the better part of the last 20 years diving into the best in Personal Development, Self Help, Conscious Evolution and Spirituality (Learn more about me HERE).

I've run the experiments on my own life and have found an integrated morning routine which serves to awaken you to your Authentic Self.

I call it my #MAGICALmornings for Dads Method. It combines Meditation/Breathwork, Activity, Gratitude, Intention, Cold Immersion, Affirmation and Letting Go

It works if you work it. I'd love to share it with you. More on this in a moment.

But before I go further, I want you to know that my road to becoming a self-proclaimed kick-ass Dad was a rocky one.

There are some men who know they want to be dads. Some might even feel they were born to be fathers. Not me. Every fiber of my being told me I had no real interest in it.

For my entire adult life, I had absolutely no real interest in having a child of my own. In fact, the thought of it, made me cringe. Whenever I heard a child cry, it was like nails on a chalk board to me. I remember thinking, I can’t quite understand why anyone would choose that as a life path. My mindset was that as soon have a child, your own life is over as you know it.

But then it happened. In my 47th year on the planet, I found out I was going to be a Dad. And frankly my first thought was “Holy sh$t, this can’t be happening!”...
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I was riddled with high anxiety and I fell into deep depression. This lead to 2.5 months of total insomnia which in turn lead to a full-on Psychotic Break. To bring me back from the "dead", 4 psychotropic meds were necessary.

You can read all about it in my blogs...The Making Of A Conscious Dad, My Existential Crisis & The Meltdown and The Recovery. 

I can tell you this; the darkness was necessary and essential for me to find the Light that exists within all of us and to experience the totality of the gift of living as a human "being". So many blessings have come from my descent into the dark. Not the least of which is that I know I have found my calling...helping other Dads to Consciously Evolve into the best Dads they can possibly be.

The real "crazy" part about my story is this; that which I was resisting the most was that which I was meant to do and be on this planet. I can say to you without a shadow of a doubt in my body, mind and soul, that I was destined to be a Dad. And not just any dad, but a Conscious Dad. A dad who is peaceful, passionate, patient, present and playful. Throw in being kind, understanding, strong, flexible, forgiving, compassionate and supportive and you've got what I aspire to be each and every day for Skye, Liz and life.

As I came out of "the HELL" I was in, I was determined to slowly ween off these meds and live a medication free life. So I put into action all 8 of the practices I am going to share with you in this course, and I can proudly say that today I am 100% medication free, feeling more alive than ever before, being most authentically me and living an enormously gratifying & fulfilling life as a #FatherOnFire.

Do I fall short from time to time? You bet I do. In fact, alot. And you're gonna hear about it. Because my intention is to be as transparent, honest, real and raw with you. For far to long, I kept so much of who I actually was just out of frame so I could appear strong, stable and "flawless". It's my belief far too many men do this, and it's a recipe for disaster. It's time for men, in particular Dads, to be the way-showers for our children, as to what it means to be emotionally intelligent enough to be strong yet soft, firm yet gentle, driven yet flexible, stable yet vulnerable, confident yet humble. In short, my goal is to create a new frequency for fatherhood.

I hope you'll join me in this pursuit. Looking forward to getting to know you.

Please know that I will forever stay a "STUDENT" of life and conscious evolution. As I learn new stuff, you will too. I most certainly do NOT consider myself a guru. But I am someone who has been around the block thousands of times in my 50 years on the planet and have learned a lot that I'd love to share with you. Over the years I've had the good fortune of learning from some Master Teachers...the likes of Michael Bernard Beckwith, Deepak Chopra, Tony Robbins, Wim Hof, Paramahansa Yogananda, and Goswami Kriyananda. 

In essence, #FatherOnFire is the BEST of the BEST. Everything that I am going to share with you is a synthesis of the technologies taught by these Masters, combined with my own insights and experiences over thousands and thousands of hours of practice. In short, these were the tools that "brought me back from the dead" and provided the framework for me to step into all that I was meant to do and be on this planet...a CONSCIOUS DAD.

Now let's get to the good stuff...how you're going to grow using my #FatherOnFire Coaching Program!

1. Become More PRESENT
You will become more present. And by present I'm not only talking about physically, but also mentally, emotionally and spiritually. It's one thing to be present physically, but a whole other ball game to be CONSCIOUSLY present for your child and/or partner if you have one. I'm talking about being off your cell and not thinking about anything but the present moment and being fully. The quality and depth of connection you have with yourself, your child(ren) and partner/spouse will be amplified beyond your imagination. Time with your little ones is fleeting and before you know it, they will become a teenager, then young adult and so on. Don't miss these early formative years with your child and the glorious gift of being a light in your child's life. When you're finished with this program, "Presence" will be your middle name!

2. Become More PATIENT
You will become more patient. We need DADS who are less reactive and more responsive to the "stuff" of life. For the most part, we are living at a time and space where due to hyper stimulation, we operate from our sympathetic nervous system...fight or flight. Far more impulsive and reactive and survival in instinct. You will be given practices to shift this over to the parasympathetic nervous system...rest and digest. In short, we will be operating from a space where we have the ability to pause, take a few deep breaths and think about what is the best/highest vibration response to the current situation. So when life is pushing your buttons, rather than pushing back, you will be able to remain far more even-minded, calm and grounded.

3. Become More LOVING
You will become more loving. This is a big one. We need more men living more from their hearts rather than their heads. It's been said in the yoga community, that the heart has the power of 1000 suns. It just needs to be recognized and then released/activated. Scientifically its been shown that the electro- magnetic field coming from our heart spans out 30-60 feet beyond our body. So when we're standing in line at Starbucks, whether you're award of it or not, all the people in line and in the store are in your heart space and you're in theirs. In short, we're all connected. For our sons to live this way, they need to be shown what this looks like by their dads.

4. Become More PEACEFUL
You will become more peaceful. We need more DADS who are living "at ease"; that is, who are comfortable in their own skin, and understand the power of we vs me. Who get that kind is cool and soft is sexy. Dads who understand there is just as much value in knowing when to use the break, as there is in knowing when to push on the accelerator. Listen, if you're always flooring it, at some point in the near future you're either going to run of gas or run into something (crash). And so it is in our lives. With specific breathing techniques you develop the ability to toggle between the right (calming, cooling) and left (energizing, heating) hemispheres of the brain so that you can move through life actively calm, yet calmly active.

5. Become More PLAYFUL
You will become more playful and begin to experience a "lightness of being". 
When you do so, you will begin to not take yourself so seriously all the time. Over time, you will discover and feel the underlying connection between all things. And from this, there is a return to a childlike nature which is within all of us...one which brings about a desire to free- form play. This is a natural state for humans, but as adults it has been forgotten. When we play, it's as if we lose sense of space and time. Typically we let go of the need to outdo anyone or be better than others. We let go of our typical "egoic" ways of being. Play improves the brain's neuroplasticity. Neuroplasticity is the amazing ability of your brain to change based on what you do and the environment you're in. It's been shown that PLAY improves memory and stimulates growth of the prefrontal cortex (cerebrum, home of the conscious mind). As a Dad, becoming more playful will add more joy to your life and your child's.

6. Become More ADAPTABLE
You will become more adaptable or flexible. In essence there is a softening of your "angularity/rigidity". Your desire to impose your way on others will become less and less. As one of my teachers, Michael Bernard Beckwith has said, "Where there's willfullness, there are walls. Where there is willingness, there are ways". It used to be all about your IQ (Intelligence Quotient), then it moved to EQ (Emotional Quotient) and now it's about your AQ (Adaptability Quotient). It's no longer ok to live from "my way or the high way" mindsets. The world needs more DADS who understand the power of compromise and cooperation as opposed to competition and alienation. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. The late great Bruce Lee once said, "Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

7. Become More PURPOSEFUL
You will become more purposeful. Once we clear away all the static in your life, your true purpose reveals itself. I'm a firm believer that at a fundamental level, we're all here to love, serve and give as much as we can and to consciously evolve to a point that we leave this planet better off than when we got here. Having said this, you will uniquely express this purpose through our own gifts, talents and attributes. Once you wrap your head and heart around this Truth, you can't help but see how this also rings true in our role of FATHER. If loving, serving and giving become your primary purpose, it will naturally inform how you parent. Before you know it, from moment to moment, you'll find yourself asking, "If my child were to be able to see my next thought, word and action, what would I be teaching them about the nature of life?" In no-time you'll find yourself living, moving and being in a more aligned, integrated, evolved & purposeful way.

8. Become More PRODUCTIVE
You will become more productive. As you harness the power of your mind, learn to use it consciously, and refine the art of singularity of focus and concentration, almost anything and all things you do will be done with a heightened state of presence and clarity. In turn, when you do what it is you do, you'll do it with more efficiency, intention and productivity. There's a saying, "where concentration goes, that's where energy flows, and where energy flows, that's what grows". Quite simply, with improved clarity of what it is you intend to bring to the table as DAD, partner or person, you won't get distracted by all the "low hanging fruit" that often grabs our attention from moment to moment. And then you can use this extra energy and attention for that which really matters...being the Best Dad Ever. By the way...side note, this will most certainly spill over into every area of your life!

In the #FatherOnFire Group Coaching Program, over the course of 8 weeks (Beginning Sunday Sept 20th) we will get together twice a week LIVE on Zoom for a Coaching Session (Sundays & Thursdays) . Each week you will receive 1 of 8 wonderfully simple yet powerful tools to "shapeshift" your life. Sundays we will do a deep dive into the Topic and Thursdays will be a Accountability/Q&A session.

These are the exact Holistic Health Tecnnologies I used to go from Zero to Hero as it relates to being a Dad. The modules have intentionally been set up in a specific order to best optimize your experience and to let you progressively and thoughtfully apply that specific tool to your life during that given week.

All sessions will be RECORDED and you will have LIFETIME access to them.

Each Module will build on the one prior to it, with the end goal being to fully integrate at least 2-3 of them (if not all of them) into your daily #FatherOnFire lifestyle. In short, you're going to be given "many legs to stand on" as navigate through the turbulent waters of life and do this dance called Fatherhood.

Whether you are just getting started as a NEW DAD or HAVE BEEN in the "DAD GAME" for many years, the 8-Module #FatherOnFire Course is a powerful program structured to help DADS who want more purpose, patience, peace, playfulness, presence, love, adaptability, & productivity as a parent & person and are ready to up-level their lives!